[Safe Forex Trading System] Control The Temper......

CONTROL THE TEMPER.......

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said "you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one."

You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the 

wound will still be there.

Anger is defined as an intense attachment for an object when expressed towards an obstacle that comes between us and our object of attachment. It is also defined as revenge taken on ourselves by us for somebody else's mistakes, since it is our temperature and blood pressure that rises, it is our body that shakes and our eyes that become bloodshot. When we are angry at someone, we are actually 

angry at something linked with our own being, not with 

someone. 

"Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured."

It seems we have been conditioned to treat any tension-triggering event, be it a small accident or a conflict with a partner or colleague, as a big problem or crisis. At these moments our bodies generate and release the stress hormones adrenaline and cortisol. Our heart accelerates, our breath quickens and our mind races. It's all harmless if the tension or fright is brief and once in a while, like a near miss while driving, but the emotional disturbances of anger and hatred are like accidents that don't end, and hormones turn into toxins. The depressive effect of cortisol upon the immune system has been linked to serious diseases and disorders. According to a recent medical research, "Cortisol wears down the brain, leading to cell degeneration and memory loss. It also raises blood pressure and blood sugar, hardening the arteries, leading to heart disease." 

Anger clouds our faculty of discrimination. We cannot see the issue from a different perspective and 

there are high chances that we may end up taking the wrong decision which could prove disastrous. 

Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind. 

Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.

It is always beneficial to maintain tranquility.

One tree makes 100,000 matchsticks.
But one matchstick can burn 100,000 trees.
Similarly one negative thought or doubt can burn thousands of dreams…
Be Positive Always!!!
  

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With warm regards,

Ravi

Click link below:

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